Nice guys do finish last unless.....

Hello, figured I was on a roll so decided to post more thoughts.

Nice guys don’t win. There is a saying “nice guys finish last” and most of the time that is true. Why is that? It’s because nice guys are nice. People will take advantage of them, although the nice people are” nice”. There is a fine line between nice and being run over. Nice guys are usually polite and loyal. They will be polite to anybody even when the other person is yelling at them, being annoying, moronic, and they are loyal to anyone who has returned the niceness; or even relate to people like themselves. I consider myself a nice guy who has fallen into these categories. I am extremely loyal to my friends and am very polite even when people are yelling at me or annoyed. I try to see their point of view and reason with them without resorting to a screaming match. Other individuals don’t take us nice guys seriously because we are kind, polite, and don’t take shots at them. Being a nice guy is a blessing and a curse, you are a kind human being to everyone but there are people who take advantage of that quality. Examples, talking behind your back about stuff you have done, but they know you won’t do the same. For me, I am tired of people taking advantage of who I am. I am going to fight back with a vengeance and won’t care what they say. This might be a little bit extreme but this is who I am. I am a nice person with qualities that anybody will like. I have friends and family that like me for who I am and vice versa. So, all the nice guys out there, stand up and don't let people take advantage of you.

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